are so many kids being bullied, intimidaed,
tortured or just being frightened into conformism,
that they never seek out help or even know that
it is available for them. They may not realize
that others have or are living through the same
fears and struggles they are suffering. And
most are not old enough to realize that regardless
of any mean things they may have heard their
parents say int he past they may change their
mind if they realize that their own child is
having to face life with the same situation
they are mocking. Kids like this find only hopeleness
and take the wrong path.
is with that purpose that we created this website.
are our lives, out there in the open. Without
filters or excuses. For everyone to see and realize
that happiness is achievable and there are no
set rules to relationships except for the ones
that make that particular relationship work.
love my partner Joe in a way that words can
never express. He means the world to me and
I want to be a better person because of him.
We pay our taxes, we work hard and contribute
to our community. I personally served in the
military along with many fellow gay military
men who were proud to serve their country while
hiding in fear that thay may loose their carreer
if someone reported them.
to all those preachers, politicians and beauty
queens who feel the need to belittle anyone
who is different, I say "You are projecting
your hatred on us. But what you really hate
is something in yourself, something we remind
you of, but you want to deny. You will find
that if you learn to embrace that part of yourself,
you may be able to embrace us too."
cannot possibly have a reason to hate me, I
am no threat to you, your family, your children
or your way of life.
December of 2010 we closed on our own home in
here to see the pictures of the place
as we post them.